Trudy Gay Quirk

In loving memory of

Trudy Gay Quirk

8 Jan 1971 - 28 Mar 2026

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QUIRK, Trudy Gay -

Passed peacefully in her sleep.  Loved partner of Darryl, loved Mum of Macee, and Cruz, and mother-in-law of James, step-mum of Jordan, and Devin, loved daughter of Gayle and Paul, sister of Ricky, and Dwayne, and aunty of Noah, and Ajay, and loved friend to many. 

- A service to Celebrate Trudy's life will be held in Hope and Sons Chapel, 523 Andersons Bay Road, at 2pm, on Thursday April 2, followed by private cremation.  Messages can be left on Trudy's page below, where there is a link to the service.

Following the service you are invited to Kaikorai Rugby Club, 25 Lynn Street, from
4:30pm onwards to share more memories of Trudy.

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Messages

Melissa Lethaby

To Trudy’s family I was so incredibly sad to hear about Trudy. She was such a wonderful woman, full of energy, full of life, and she set the bar pretty high for what good management and good leadership should look like. So many people, including me, were lucky to learn from her. She took a punt on a high school kid and gave me my very first job, and I will never forget that. That opportunity meant the world to me at the time and it shaped so much of what came after. She probably had no idea how much it meant. I also absolutely loved her sense of humour and the way she was always committed to doing what was right, even when it wasn’t easy. She had a great personality, and I loved our chats. She will be so, so missed. My heart just breaks for all of you. Thinking of you all x

Delwyn Short

What a beautiful service honouring your gorgeous mum, partner, daughter & friend. I met Trudy at Grants Braes school. Macee was the same age as my daughter Kacey. I remember talking to Trudy as we watched our girls on the slide. I coached our girls at primary netball & Trudy was always there to support & brought oranges for halftime. Cruz was in the baby capsule. Connected again years later when another of her friends passed away & then through subway for work catering. She was always up for a chat. Absolute star of a woman. Blessings to you, Macee and Cruz.

Louise Mckenzie

Dear Paul and Gail I was very sorry to hear of Trudy’s passing terribly sad for you all for one so young. Love Lou

LJ Apaipo

Darling Truds. Words fail me, a true gem, stolen from us far too soon! A loving and caring mother, an amazing friend and a truely loyal woman! You will be missed by many. Thank you for the light you gave to our lives! The laughs, the joy and the tears from fits of laughter. Go rest high on that mountain, you work on earth is done. Forever loving you. Big love to all of your whaanau Darryl, Macee, Cruz, James, Jordan and Devin. 💜💜💜💜💜 LJ

Juanita Willems

Trudy, you beautiful, selfless wonderful lady, your support over the years for Foster Hope Otago has been so greatly appreciated, I couldn't believe it when I heard the sad news, you will always have a special place in my heart, my thoughts re with the whole family and your partner Dazza , rest easy you amazing human xxx

Mel Hyland

Heartfelt condolences for a beautiful lady, taken far too soon. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Sending love, Messy

Tracey Ousey

To Trudys family, friends and the Learning Place Team. I am so sorry to hear this news. Trudy was infectious and and passionate. Trudy you were a long distance collegue who became a special friend. Our banter about the north verses south's weather, among other things, and you taking the time to be so personable meant the world to me. I will miss our chats and and your warmth. Thank you for your amazing support over the years and for creating amazing experiences for our students at Rathkeale College. Rest easy beautiful lady. XX

Glynis Sinclair

So sorry to hear of Trudy’s passing. She was such a lovely bubbly person, many fond memories of great times with the “Subway” family . Glynis & John Sinclair ,Subway Palmerston North.

Lee Maher

My deepest condolences. A beautiful lady taken far too soon—she will never be forgotten. loved by so many. Love lee x

Cameron Wright

Dear Daza and family. I’m so sorry I could not make it to see Trudy off today. I am absolutely lost for words as to why Trudy had to be taken so soon. Such a beautiful soul who I enjoyed being around every time, never a dull moment. Bet your life I’ll be having a cold one for Trudy while watching this livestream (ill have more than one) Rest in love beautiful Trudy ❤️💔

Leeann Smith

Dear Daza and family, I was truly sad to hear about Trudy. She was such a special person and will be deeply missed by everyone who knew her. My heart goes out to you, family and friends during this incredibly sad time. Sending you love and strength, may you find comfort in the memories you shared . Leeann

Jo Pledger

I only knew you a short while, but you had a presence which lit up the room! Fun loving and so giving of your time. Rest easy knowing that you were loved by so many - Jo Pledger