CARSTENS, Conelia (Connie).
On January 20, 2026, peacefully, surrounded by family.
Dearly loved wife of Vernon, much loved mother and mother-in-law of Inge and Clemens, Liske and Kane, and the kindest grandmother of Noah, Mila, and Lewis. Thank you to the staff at Dunedin Hospital for taking such wonderful care of Connie. You will be forever in our hearts.
A private cremation has been held. A Memorial Service to celebrate Connie's amazing life will be held in Hope and Sons Chapel, 523 Andersons Bay Road, Dunedin, at 10am on Saturday, February 14. Messages can be left below where a livestream of the service can also be viewed.
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Dear family, We were so deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your mom and wife, Connie. Our hearts ache for you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. Please know that we’re thinking of you and holding you all close in our thoughts. May you always feel her love and presence surrounding you and take comfort knowing that she is resting easy now. We love you and here if there’s ever anything we can do x
Dear Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We pray that God will carry and comfort you and that the many wonderful memories you have of Aunty Connie will make you smile...even if it is with a tear at times. May her dear soul rest in eternal peace and rise in glory. Forever in our hearts. Lots of love, Charlene and family
Dear family, I'm sending you virtual hugs during this difficult time. I will miss my aunty Connie so much! She was a wonderful lady. Spending time with her and my family in New Zealand and Australia are still some of the best memories of my life. The way she took care of us and always made sure we were having a good time. Her laugh and her humour will always make me smile. Thinking of uncle Vernon, Inge, and Liske. I'm there with you in spirit. Love you always ❤️
Deepest condolences to the family during this sad time of bereavement. So sad that I will not have a friend to turn 80 with me this year. May her soul rest in peace
Connie words cannot express the void in my heart. Your unwavering love and support for me and your family will be cherished and missed. You lived life with strong morals, principles and respect for all in your personal and professional life. I will forever treasure the special memories and moments we shared throughout life and especially on your last vacation to South Africa. I am eternally grateful for the wisdom and guidance that you have bestowed upon me. Thank you for being a counsellor, comforter and confidante. Gone but never forgotten. Go well and Rest in Peace. Uncle Vernon Much gratitude for always being a carer, companion and loving Connie unconditionally. There are not many of you around. I can only imagine the magnitude of loss you are experiencing. Remember grief is love with nowhere to go. Sending you lots of warm hugs and kisses. Inge, Liske, Clemens and Kane Mothers will always be mothers. That kind of love and nurturing never disappears. Hoping you find comfort in the lessons and memories Connie left behind. Wishing you all peace, love and healing. Love Janice (Nancy)
My dear family: May God wrap you all in comfort and carry you through each moment. We are constantly thinking of you and standing with you. I pray that beautiful memories bring you comfort and that you feel the strength of everyone holding you up right now. Love you all! ❤️
Hi Vernon Liske Cane Inge and Clement. God the big comforter will carry you through this final journey of healing. We are there in spirit and will be watching.