Alan Raymond - Ray Hay

In loving memory of

Alan Raymond - Ray Hay

19 Jan 1946 - 8 Jun 2025

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- In Dunedin Hospital with family by his side, on Sunday, June 8, 2025; aged 79 years. Loving husband of Margaret, much loved father and father-in-law of Lisa and Andrew Borthwick, and the late Tania Kearney, awesome Grandpa of Sophia, and Paddy, loved brother of Zane, and Jenny, great friend of Kevin Kearney. In lieu of flowers please make a donation to alzheimersotago.org.nz.
- A private cremation has been held, with a celebration of Ray's life to be held at St Clair Golf Club, 18 Isadore Road, St Clair, at 2pm, on Saturday June 28. Messages to 8 Rotary Park Close, Shiel Hill, Dunedin 9013 or on Ray's page below.

Messages

Janine Smith

Dear Margaret, Lisa and family. So very sorry to learn of Ray's passing. Such lovely childhood memories in Dunedin with your family. Sending much love to you all. Janine xx

Don. Anderson

Sincere condolence Margaret & family. Having known Ray since high school days and Jaycee membership this is a sad loss. I much valued his organizational skills and very much appreciated an OBHS class reunion he arranged a few years back. He always worked with reliable enthusiasm and special humor. Sadly we saw little of him when living in Wanaka but the association is well remembered. Kind regards to you all. Don & Ruth Anderson

john cushen

It was so sad to hear the news that Ray had passed away recently. I had a lot to do with ray as his wife Margret was one of the administration stars at Kings High School. We socialized a lot and as long as we stayed off the subject of OBHS V Kings we had a great time Ray being an old OBHS boy and I a Kings lad. Aging certainly throws up its challenges. My thoughts are with Margret and family and Ray, thanks for so many good times.

Heather Thorne

Stu and I are saddened to hear of Ray's death. First got to know Ray when in Jaycees and then through Margaret's work. Have spent many happy hours with Ray and Margaret when they retired to Wanaka. Our condolences to Margaret, Lisa and family. He will be sadly missed.

Heather Nicolson

Truly saddened to hear of Ray’s passing. Our condolences and thoughts are with Margaret, Lisa and family, during this sad time. Have lots of happy memories of Ray who will be fondly remembered for his great story telling abilities. X

Hilary West

So sad to hear of Ray’s passing. I have many happy memories of time spent with Margaret and him. Lots of love to Margaret and her family. xxx

Cheryl McDuff

So very very sorry to hear about the passing of Ray. I first met him about 48 years ago when he and my extra husband were members of The Jaycees organization. Many a Friday night spent opening oysters and selling them at the pub. We spent many happy hours with him Margaret, Tania and Lisa. He was a great person full of life and had a wicked sense of humor. Many a great night was held at his house. My condolences to all his family. He will be greatly missed by those who knew and loved him. Cheryl

John Milburn

So sorry to hear that Ray is no longer with us .We first met at Dunedin East Rotary where Ray's quirky sense of humour left a lasting impression on me.When Jen and I had Monarch Wildlife Cruises Ray changed my name to Captain Pugwash!! Subsequently we met up again in Wanaka through Rotary and Friday golf where Ray organised our rag tag bunch for many enjoyable times chasing small white balls before retiring for happy drinks ,stories and yarns.Ray was a good man and a loyal friend.Thoughts go to Lisa and family. John and Jenny Milburn

Kathryn Mitchell

Sorry to read of Ray's passing. We were really good friends with them both Margaret & Ray when they were in Wanaka. Sadly we lost contact with them when they shifted to Dunedin. Our thoughts and condolences to the family. Much sympathy, Ken & Kathryn Mitchell